Actually, Sodom & Gomorrah, research shows us that the bain of pornography affects women and men, today, equally! And as Rufus said, "our salvation is not dependent on the works that we do, and neither are we, being human, able to perfectly judge the fruit of another human being's life. And Kyle from Tuscon, this effort is pointless? Really? And the blood of Messiah, is that also pointless? Since, in this world, sin will never be eradicated, completely, in a believer, shall we just throw in the towel? It is a fact that there are goats among the sheep. It is also a fact that although YAH, resurrects the dead spirit of a man, he will be continuously waging war in the battlefield of the soul (mind, will, emotions), until we are with HIM! The Gospel is the power of God for salvation to everyone who believes! The Gospel is power for believers-for the ongoing salvation (maturity, or 'perfection') of the souls of the saints! Until he comes!!
I worked jail ministry with this pastor and everything seemed fine. Homeschoolers, sheltered family, etc., but I have feeling that there was a 'hole in the umbrella', somewhere! Not sure if this is the case with this family, but, growing up in 'church', I heard, and hear pastors encouraging folks to serve in the 'church', while the enemy came in the back door of the 'first church(the family!)'! Men of YAH, guard your peapatch, first!!