Your attorney will require you to blame everyone and everything else. Unless you fire your lawyer and represent yourself, he'll fire you for telling the truth.
Unprofitable Servant wrote: "Schaap, who pleaded guilty four months ago to taking the teen girl across state lines with intent to engage in criminal sexual activity, was regularly working 100-hour weeks as he struggled to raise money for the 15,000-member church, handled additional counseling responsibilities, and had to lay off staff, the memorandum said. He was also being treated for chronic and acute inflammation of his prostate ‚Äď all of that led to his "aberrant" behavior with the girl who turned 17 during the relationship." Looks like he blamed everything but himself and the choice he made. See how that compares with David owning his sin in Psalm 51.