Since the "vast majority" of baptists are now moving beyond a "Calvinist reference point" and are working their way to salvation, it doesn't much matter if you label it Arminianism or Catholicism. Yes, Baptists have their own sins and idols. But where is this alleged unsearchable chasm separating Evangelicals and Catholics?
If we want to save traditional marriage and any semblance of religious freedom, somebody's going to have to get together. But if conservative Evangelicals and Catholics can't stand to be together in the same room, it'll be the liberals driving the train that finally dumps traditional marriage and destroys the family as they've been successfully doing for over 100 years.