Christian Atheist wrote: their wives take a little pill (chemical birth control) and they kill off the life that that could be in their womb awaiting to inplant it's self in the womb wall to mature into a child
God creates the soul of the mortal at conception.
God has foresight into the life of that soul and its outcome.
If that soul is to be aborted by a daily chemical pill will God provide the soul which is what provides the life in the foetus, baby .....
I would say that what comes first in life is the God given soul and the flesh then by the very existance of that soul is added over nine months.